Sex is a culmination of foregoing one’s inhibitions and disrobing both physically and mentally, and in this state of utter nudity, one must know how to savour each other’s vulnerability not only through actions but through words as well. Remember: Communication during lovemaking is as important as sex.
How to communicate during sex?
FIND OUT HOW YOUR SWEETHEART WANTS YOU TO PLAY IN BED
Don’t hesitate to ask what your partner wants or what they like. It is essential that you both freely communicate what you fancy and what you despise with regards to sex. Sometimes it is easy to determine what they enjoy from their biased responses to the certain ways in which you move or to certain things that you do. If you can’t be sure, ask them and they’ll tell you, so you both can enjoy a fulfilling and happy intimacy without holding your desires back not having to pleasure and receive pleasure from your lover half-heartedly.
APPRECIATE THEIR ACTIONS TO BOOST THEIR DRIVE
While sex is seeking pleasure it is also bestowing pleasure. Appreciate what your partner does to please you. Do you like it when they gently nibble on your lower lip, or how they carry you in their arms while they are inside you or how they whisper erotic praises to your ears, how they touch you in the right ways at the right places? Let them know it all. It will turn them on better from knowing that they can satisfy you so. It is like an ego boost which adds to stimulation and arousal.
ENGAGE IN DIRTY TALKING
Dirty talks during sex can turn both you and your beloved on. Don’t be shy. Both of you are equally bare at this point so you don’t need to hesitate or hold back your real emotions. Open up and communicate your true sensations and tingles. Sex isn’t about modesty, it is about letting loose your animal self. It is about crudeness and rawness.
BABY TALKS ARE AS IMPERATIVE AS DIRTY TALKS
As much as it is important to be wild and raw it is also necessary that you let emotions of tenderness flow. Call your partner by lovey-dovey nicknames. Mother him and let him father you. Say childish things while you both lie caressing each other. Addressing your partner as an adult sometimes triggers an ego boost in them which in turn educes arousal. Communicate every feeling honestly so that your partner feels connected.
COMPLIMENT YOUR LOVER’S PRIVY PARTS
Those are their assets that they make the best use of to gratify you. Communicate your thoughts out to your beloved about how you value those. Tell them how their man parts excel at granting massive pleasure to you. It makes them feel potent and assures them of their masculinity so that they want to exhaust it more and more unto you.
ADMIRE THEIR ATTRIBUTES
Tell them how your heart skips a beat every time they smile; how you love the perfume their skin emanates and so on. These are thoughts that you can communicate to them even while you are making love because it enhances romance in the bedroom along with the wildness.
GESTURES SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS
It is not only through words that you require to communicate your feelings of satisfaction, love, pleasure or passion. Communicate your feelings through body language, noise and facial expressions which can, in fact, give effect to a deeper arousal in your mate. Occasional moaning, clutching of objects within your reach in a desperate moment of ardour, and patterns of body movement can give out meanings that may not be easy to express in words.
Communication during sexual endeavours is essential as it helps in maintaining a healthy and guileless sexual bond. This, in turn, acts as a catalyst to a sturdy emotional bond. So now you’re well equipped with the art of communication during sex. Hope it will enhance your experiences in the future and communicate better in bed 😉 Good luck!
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