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I completely understand and agree to ur points! alisha N zakiya! but my point is simple.. U can’t just b a piece of meat n expect dogs not to attack u! 😊.
Abusers may apologize profusely for their actions or try to convince the person they are abusing that they do these things out of love or care. However, violence and control always intensifies over time with an abuser, despite the apologies. What may start out as something that was first believed to be harmless (e.g., wanting the victim to spend all their time only with them because they love them so much) escalates into extreme control and abuse (e.g., threatening to kill or hurt the victim or others if they speak to family, friends, etc.). domestic violence does not always manifest as physical abuse. Emotional and psychological abuse can often be just as extreme as physical violence. Lack of physical violence does not mean the abuser is any less dangerous to the victim, nor does it mean the victim is any less trapped by the abuse. Girls! We should be very careful if we have a partner or intend to have one in the future. I don’t know what ‘control over a girl’s life by ones parent called’ but I’m definitely a victim of it. No going out after four, no talking with guys, no going anywhere alone, not even in the company of friends, no nothing!
being protective is one thing which is acceptable but this “caring” drama is not done. I can never be with a guy who wants me to talk and be with people he wants to. One should not agree to this at the beginning of the relation itself! this is so frustrating..one thing i cam conclude from this forum and debate is that you should be clear and bold enough to speak against violance of any kind physical or mental.
And emotional too. But what can be done if our parents behave this way? Can we raise our voice against someone who have raised us for more than twenty years? Can we counter-argue them and not fall for their emotional ploy? Can we fight for our freedom? Our passion? Our life?
i am not sure bout parents alisha. If u say something disrespectful once u feel guilty and get upset the next second… i would ask you to guide me through this dilemma 🙁
It is obvious that something needs to be done.
However, the question is how many are willing to do something about it? That answer is unfortunately relatively low.
That is correct. But people are coming together, we have activists, feminists, rebels and so on voicing their rage and revenge.
At some point of time, every girl is compelled to face this domainant behaviour by someone, be it parents or partners. Alisha, no one is ready to speak it out. Girls think it’s common of them to do so and hide behind the curtains of their Windows. Such girls give away their lives, their freedom to their partners who take it for granted. Many husbands and many parents love their child and don’t discriminate between a boy or a girl. A child is a child for them. Unfortunately, when all the bugs are killed, a few cockroaches are always left behind. Stricter rules have been enacted, the govt. has done something under its authority and changes can also be seen, yes, if you look back, a drastic change have been made for good. What you are saying happens with me too. Maybe, that’s a sign of their affection and care for you. Maybe, that’s how they demonstrate it!
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