This article would really help you if you are a newlywed couple living in a joint family or a soon-to-be-wed couple who would be living in a joint family. Romancing with so many people around is not easy and privacy is one of the factors that most people living in joint families are concerned with. But it is not impossible to romance your spouse even with people around and all that is required is some proper planning. Holidays are not the only time when you can find some romance; you can find it at your home as well.
Being the husband you should understand, that you wife is new to your family and feeling homesick is but natural and hence, do not long for her attention. Give her the time to settle down and make her feel your love and take good care of her.
As the wife, make an attempt to adjust to your new family and do not forget to enjoy the romantic moments with your husband and try and create some yourself as well.
Here are few tips that you can follow to make her feel at home and keep your romance alive.
- Public display of affection: PDA really works and there is no point in showing some in front of your family. Nobody is asking you to go overboard with it but a soft stroke on her hair, a short yet loving hug, holding her hands and even a small peck on the cheek are okay. Brushing against each other while crossing path is the least you can do.
- Go for romantic walks: It is not always possible to spend time with your wife, whenever you want when you are living in a joint family. Hence, it is important that you make some time for her from your busy schedule. Plan a walk after dinner, hold her hands and talk romantic. Spend some quality time and create memories that last long.
- Plan a date for the entire day: This can be planned once or twice a month. You can start off with a movie date and then take her to a nice and cozy restaurant for lunch. Visit a café, go shopping and finish it off with a nice and romantic candlelit dinner. Try out something new each time to keep the spark alive. It is said that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach and as a wife you can give him occasional treats. Decorate your room with candles and enjoy a romantic dinner in your bedroom.
- Make sure that he/she is happy: Ask her if she is happy and encourage her to tell you if anything is affecting her happiness. Give her the required time and space so that she can trust you. All these would only help her in having faith in you. As a wife, it is also your duty to make sure that your husband is happy. Brag about him to boost his ego in front of family and friends.
Plan short trips and do not ignore your family as well. Romancing in front of the family is fun and learn how to balance both.
